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Why Healthy Love Is Boring

Why Healthy Love Is Boring

Why Feeling Safe Feels So Dangerous

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19:26 on a Tuesday. Nothing is wrong. Your whole body is screaming: run.
This isn’t a love story. It’s an intervention—told through ordinary scenes where your patterns actually show up: supermarket aisles, dentist waiting rooms, quiet evenings that should feel like peace but register as threat. If you’ve ever felt “bored” with a good person, you weren’t bored. You were dysregulated in safety.

Patterns you’ll recognize:

Chasing-the-Spike — mistaking adrenaline for “chemistry,” then calling peace a red flag.
Safety Intolerance — your body treats stability like a trap; you go looking for proof.
Non-Emergency Presence — discomfort when nothing needs saving; you manufacture intensity.
The Two-Inch Gap — close enough to stay, never close enough to be reached.
Sleep-Score Love — measuring devotion in lost sleep, late replies, tight-chest waiting.
Truth-Ticking — the pressure of what you won’t say—until it leaks out sharp.

If your body recognized even one line above, read the sample.

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